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“We have a big God, therefore you should have a God-sized dream!”

“Is your vision as big as your God?”
“We serve an extraordinary God, so stop living an ordinary life!”

There’s a constantly flowing river of Christian living books that try to convince us that the immensity of God is actually a communicable attribute. They say that if our God is big, then his plans for us must be big as well. Our potential is limited by the infinity of our God – that is, not at all. The possibilities are endless. If you can dream it, you can do it. And on and on. Though not a “Christian” book, Christians love what Jim Collins in his book Built to Last calls the “big, hairy, audacious goal” or “BHAG” that every successful company must have. Christians in the form of books, seminars, and conferences have poured themselves a bowl of this idea and eaten it for breakfast. It’s the Christian version of the McDonald’s Super Size — it’s the “God-sizing” of our dreams and goals.

And I say, “Yes, but…”

Big Idea and Bonhoeffer

Phil Vischer, the creator of Veggie Tales, tells the story of Veggie Tales’ parent company Big Idea:

I read the book Built to Last, a classic business study of what makes great companies great. The analysis of the Walt Disney Company struck me as particularly relevant, and I found myself asking the question, “Do I just want to make a few films to leave behind when I’m gone, or do I want to build a company that can keep making great films for the next 100 years?” The answer seemed obvious. I wanted to build the next Disney.

By the time I finished the book I had a new vision for Big Idea. We would attract top artists from all over the country. We would build a culture of biblical values and great storytelling. And then, the big one: The book said you needed to pick a “Big, Hairy Audacious Goal,” or a “BHAG” in Built to Lastparlance. Golly gosh… what was my “BHAG?” Hmm. I wasn’t sure. I had always felt that God wanted me to tell the stories and teach the lessons he laid on my heart, but he hadn’t given me any particular big, hairy audacious goal. But the book said I needed one to inspire and focus my employees. Okay… deep breath… “We will build a top-four family media brand within 20 years!” Huh? Where did that come from? I had no idea. All I knew was that now I had my “BHAG.” And if it was going to come true, we were going to have to get a lot bigger. What I didn’t know was that my new path would take us right smack through “No Man’s Land.”

Dietrich Bonhoeffer, in the same vein, explains, “God hates visionary dreaming.” Bonhoeffer clarifies this provocative quote by saying that a visionary ideal (call it a “God-sized dream” in our kind of talk) creates a standard apart from Scripture by which we judge God, others, and ourselves.

If or when the God-sized dream doesn’t happen, we question God and think God unfaithful for not fulfilling something he never promised to begin with.

The Real Issue

I know you’re probably going to think I’m a hypocrite when I say that I have no problem with big dreams, big goals, or a big vision.  I have one for my life, for our family, and for our church. The issue is whether or not this dream, goal, or vision truly comes from God. We should triple-check the Bible to make sure before we grab a BHAG and claim, “God put this dream in my heart!” Maybe he did. Maybe he didn’t. The only way to tell is to test it against Scripture. Actually, let’s quadruple-check, just to be sure.

And while we’re checking, we should remember that our Messiah’s big, hairy, audacious goal was to carry a wooden beam up a hill to be crucified. Success for Jesus looked like failure. Maybe that will restrain our quickness to proclaim that God has given us a dream that anyone would recognize as success. After all, Bonhoeffer was executed by hanging from piano wire strung around a meat hook only 11 days before Americans liberated his prison.

Maybe, he was right, and sometimes God does indeed hate visionary dreaming.

 

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Mixing Makes Messes

In elementary school, we learned to mix vinegar and baking soda and pretended the white, sudsy stuff was lava spewing from a volcano. When you mix multiple ethnicities, cultures, and generations you get an instant mess. It’s complex and complicated. It’s tense and it’s confusing. But, man oh man, it is beautifully worth it. The volcanic power of a church that is truly diverse ethnically and generationally amazes the world more than a science project amazes a school kid.

Our church continues to learn how to navigate the complexities of this beautiful mess. It’s tense some of the time. It’s complicated a lot of the time. It’s worth it all of the time (even if it doesn’t feel like it).

The Church That Gives Me Hope

A friend asked me recently, “Outside of Christ and the Gospel, what churches practically give you hope in the area of ethnic and generational diversity?” I wasn’t sure how to answer. I don’t get to visit other churches very often, so I haven’t really seen it in action in other places. I’ve read a lot, heard a lot, but – you know how pastors can be. You wonder what it actually looks like. So I told him the dead-straight truth: “Our church.” Truly, our church gives me hope that this whole thing can work. It is working. It’s harder than getting a bunch of people together based on mutually beneficial and pleasing preferences. And it therefore displays the power of the Gospel with an eruptive power that shakes the world. I’m sure there are churches out there doing it better than us. I’m learning from some of them through books and conferences. But like I told my friend, I don’t think anyone has it “figured out.”

The Myth of “Figuring It Out”

Anyone who claims to have a mess-free multi-ethnic and multi-generational church either doesn’t realize there is a mess, or really has a homogenous church with a superficial layer of diversity. Sure, there are principles and strategies, but it’s still like trying to contain a concoction of vinegar and baking soda. It will make a mess, somewhere, somehow (YouTube it, if you don’t believe me). I don’t think we “figure it out”, and I don’t know that we should try. Instead, we should follow it out: we follow Jesus, seek God, trust the Gospel, love one another, and serve the world. Sometimes it’s glorious, often it’s messy, and always — it’s worth it.

 

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Hall of Fame basketball player Rick Barry tells the story of giving advice to his sons. Three of the four played in the NBA, but they weren’t always even starters, let alone Hall of Famers. When they would spend most of the game on the bench, Rick would tell them (paraphrased), “Prepare every day like you’re going to start and play the whole game. You never know when your time will come, so at every moment you have to be ready like it could be the moment.”

Life is like that. I don’t know what you want. I don’t know if or when God might give you an opportunity for it. But I do know this, if you’re not ready, it won’t matter if the moment comes or not. You’ll miss it. You need to keep yourself in playing shape. Prepare like a starter, even if you’re riding the pine.

What’s your dream?
To be a professor?
An artist?
A writer?
A stock broker?
A homemaker?
A missionary?

You can’t expect to achieve it, if you’re not actively preparing yourself. At any moment, be ready for the moment.

Shoot free throws.
Write and rewrite.
Study the markets.
Finish your degree.

If someone pulls a hamstring, and you get called to take off you warm-up suit and get on the floor, be ready to keep up for the whole game.

If the moment comes, are you ready? 

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My mom is awesome.

I’m sure you think you have great mom, but I’m more sure that my mom is better. Here are ten reasons why, in no particular order:

  1. After coming from a broken family, she vowed never to allow her marriage to end in divorce.
  2. She has a spiritual sense of discernment which is spooky accurate.
  3. She prayed I wouldn’t get straight A’s in seminary, because she didn’t want me to focus on the wrong things, or to be arrogant.
  4. She is a prayer warrior, who seems to have the ear of God in a special way, unlike anyone I know. (See, for example, the A- in my first semester of seminary).
  5. She is the perfect fit for my dad.
  6. She made my baby food from scratch, and didn’t do it for any of the other kids after me.
  7. She is faithful and consistent, to the nth degree.
  8. She has a great sense of humor.
  9. She got a ticket for driving almost 100mph – in her 50s!
  10. She makes killer chicken.

My mom taught me by example to love Jesus pray with power and unflappable faith. I’m grateful for her.

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